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Take Charge of Your Pup's Toys

By Michele Welton, Dog Trainer, Breed Selection Consultant, Author of 15 Dog Books


dog with toys

Is your floor littered with lots of dog toys? A tennis ball here. Two chew bones over there. A plush teddy bear on the sofa. Squeaky toys on the rug by the door.

Is that okay?

Sure, IF your pup....

  • is not chewing anything else (like your furniture or belongings!)
  • is respectful of you and your family
  • and has no behavior issues

But I wouldn't advise leaving all those toys down at once. To maintain interest, I recommend rotating toys. Let your pup have a few toys for a few weeks. Then put them away and offer a different set.

dog clinging to a boneRotating toys keeps your pup's mind open to accepting new things, which is a healthy attitude. Rotating toys also makes them seem new and exciting whenever you return them.

If your pup is a destructive chewer (meaning he's chewing up your stuff, too), he should NOT have a bunch of toys.

When the floor is littered with toys, a chew-happy pup might assume that everything  is chewable.... including your belongings.

I give a destructive chewer only one or two toys, as tough and durable as possible. Nylabones and Kong toys are often good choices.

Having only a couple of toys makes it clear to a destructive dog that those two objects are the only things he is allowed to chew on.

Everything else he tries to pick up receives an "AH-ah!" or "Leave it!" (taught in my training books).

The good news is that most destructive chewers grow out of the habit with maturity. So at some point, you should be able to add more toys and begin rotating them for variety.

pup chasing ballIf your pup has any behavior issues, he should NOT have a bunch of toys.

Just as pups with behavior issues tend to be sleeping on their owners' beds or furniture, pups with behavior issues tend to have free access to toys, either scattered on the floor or in a dog-accessible toy box.

This presents us with a great opportunity! You see, along with sleeping spots  and foodtoys  are a valuable resource to your dog.

Therefore, one of the best ways to establish the proper leader-follower relationship with a pup who is being disrespectful or acting out,  is for you to control the toys.

With disrespectful pups, don't leave toys down all day and don't offer free access to a toy box. Free access to toys can create a dog who feels entitled.

Instead, you want the pup to understand that toys are privileges  controlled by you. Make sure he watches you as you select one  toy from YOUR toy shelf, which is not dog-accessible. Have him Sit,  then hand it to him. After a short play session, make sure he watches you pick it up and put it back on YOUR shelf. This simple routine is a very big thing to dogs!

Brussels GriffonPups who are possessive of their toys

In my training program, I talk about resource guarding,  which is a dangerous behavior problem.

It typically starts with a dog hovering over something (a toy, his food, your lap) and growling when someone approaches or extends their hand toward it. Usually it gets worse and worse until the dog finally bites.

So if your pup is acting possessive, take that toy away as soon as you can do so safely. Put it away in a drawer. A few days later, try a different toy. If he does the same thing with that one, pick up every single toy for a full month while you continue implementing my training program.

If you reach a point where you think you've been successful in establishing the proper leader-follower relationship, you can try reintroducing one  toy and see what happens.

My book covertraining program is for puppies 2 to 18 months old. It explains, step by step:

  • How to establish good patterns and routines that govern everything your pup does.
  • How to teach your pup to be calm and to look to you for guidance, direction, and permission.
  • How to make yourself important – the most important thing – in your puppy’s life. How to show your pup the clear, black-and-white rules and routines he is to follow. And how to make sure he does.

Michele Welton with BuffyAbout the author: Michele Welton has over 40 years of experience as a Dog Trainer, Dog Breed Consultant, and founder of three Dog Training Centers. An expert researcher and author of 15 books about dogs, she loves helping people choose, train, and care for their dogs.


To help you train and care for your dog

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